I consider myself someone who has always been good at tasks. I mean you give me a job and I will make sure it gets done ! Due to this mindset, schooling, working, and even parenting is easy for me to turn into a routine. I don't think about it I just do it. I … Continue reading Possibilities of a Kinda, Sorta, but Maybe not, Missing Person
It finally happened. I had been blessed with my dream job that came with almost 10 grand more than my previous job and after many years of trying to get my credit aligned, my husband and I had been approved for a new home! We had tried for many years to get approved and even … Continue reading New Home = Mom Guilt?
For the longest, I always viewed myself as a self-motivated "career woman". My favorite movie growing up was To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything (very very old movie), and even though the movie was based around men in drag trying to get to a beauty pageant, they described themselves as career women stopping at no … Continue reading Rethinking the Future.
My husband wants another child. 1+1+1+1+1= 5 5 of us living under 1 roof and 3 out of those 5 I would be responsible for nurturing. Don't get me wrong, I know my husband will help, even when we weren't together he was always a great father. But can I be totally transparent for a … Continue reading Another Baby !?
Being an introvert it is really hard for me to stay in crowds,talk, or be social in any atmosphere for a long period of time. I literally feel drained,exhausted, and like something physically exhausting has actually happened. In having an honest moment and sharing more than I usually feel comfortable. I felt like today I … Continue reading Child for sale !?
I had to leave for work quite early and had taken my daughters cornrows out the night before. As an African American young girl, I didn't redo her hair because I wanted to give her hair time to "breathe" and relax from the stress the cornrows had put on her hair. The next morning her … Continue reading Daddies and Afros